Carron,
Just read the blog tonite. Hearing what the Doctors have said, I'm sure you are firstly--shocked--of that whole thing. Secondly--not quite sure what to think. Having been through all of this with my mother-in-law, who survived 15 1/2 years post surgery, I can tell you it is not going to be an easy trip for any of you especially your Dad. Something I feel is in your Dad's favor is that he is NOT a "poor me" kind of guy. I also feel that your family will be his pillars of strength and faith. The Lord is with you, your family and your Dad, Carron and, hard as it may be, he will take his surgery if needed and treatments of whateversort and ~HE~ will be there through it all. We ALL will be there.
What I can hope for your family is that you pull together. That won't be a problem!! There are wonderful Doctors and facilities around here. I know they will do what is best for your Dad. Some of it...his recovery...will depend on lots of love and also some tough love as well. We all know he is a fighter and won't let it get him down. Pete's got a lot of time left on this Mother Earth and I know he'll be a great patient and do what they tell him.
I know it's a worrisome time my friend but please stay strong and know that we have very LARGE shoulders which we will lend anytime. I love you, Carron, and I will be praying for you and your family.
SINCERELY,
Kathy and Rick